On Freelance, and Not Being a Jerk
John Gruber @ Daring Fireball linked this entry for a designer relating his horror story of a freelance job. The traffic appears to have killed his webhost, but you can still find a Google Cache if you're creative.
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There's a basic rule in life: Don't be a jerk. It doesn't matter if the other person is paying you or not, whether it's a job, or a traffic accident: being a jerk to the other person will get you nowhere. Who populates design message boards? Bored, frustrated, angry designers. I know, because I'm one of them (I haunt NewsToday). Would I take advice from me on a board like that? Hell no! I'm on there because I'm bored, angry, frustrated, and anonymous. The worst case is you find me email in my profile and I get a mean note. Then I blacklist your domain and don't get any emails from you, ever.

